Every person wants to be loved, noticed, approved and valued, this need makes a person feel his or her existence.
From our childhood, we want to be aware of our existence and to receive reactions that we are approved of from the outside world. Confirmation sentences come primarily from parents, reaching out to us in the following years by other authority figures in our lives. Sentences starting with approval words such as «Congrats», «Bravo» shape our perception of worthiness. These statements are guidance for us. It determines our environment, our work, our family, our relationships, and most importantly, our standing in life.
The dance of life is done with these attitudes. However, sometimes the rhythm and harmony of this dance are disturbed and at that moment a “psychological game” starts. The psychological game is played with negative attitudes such as «Accuser», «Rescuer» and «Victim».
If there is no openness in an environment, people are manipulating each other or being manipulated by someone else, talking to each other through expressions of sarcasm and contempt, then that environment is very permissible to psychological play. In order not to enter this game and not to disrupt the harmony of the dance, it is important to maintain positive attitudes such as «Supporter», «Helper», «Free Child».
Individual Basic Attitudes and Behaviors Inventory allows the coach to hold a mirror to the person he or she is coaching.
After the completion of the inventory, a specially arranged PDF report is sent to the person's e-mail address. Thanks to this report enriched with detailed information and graphics, the person who receives coaching services realizes his/her basic attitudes and behaviors.
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